What's the Secret to Making a Guy Fall in Love with You?
Is there some magical secret to making a guy fall in love with you? Are you giving all your best and getting nothing in return? Do you sometimes even shed a tear because his feelings don't match what you feel so deeply for him? Then it's time you get the attention, respect, and heartfelt love you deserve. These simple tips can make all the difference, if you're really interested in making a guy fall in love with you.
Let's take a ride in our time machine back to the days when we were in the early grades. Remember? All the girls were smart and responsible, and all the boys were wild maniacs with the attention span of a fruit fly. Then, by high school our hormones had kicked in, along with our lovely lady lumps and bumps and humps. And we devolved into a bunch of fashion-obsessed, body-conscious, boy crazy, giggling twits! Our intelligence and drive took a backseat to our biological role as the guardian of a single egg in search of the perfect seed. The guys were all biologically hardwired to look for quantity to sow their unlimited seeds, while we were out to find our immature teenage idea of quality. The smart, dependable guys that we want now had to put up with our constant rejection then.
Whitney Houston had a big song in the 80s. It said that loving yourself is the greatest love of all. Let's build on the meaningful foundation of normalcy we created for ourselves as bright little girls, when we were still whole beings. If we can love ourselves and know that we do not need a man to complete us, then we can reclaim some of that quality and serenity of life that the raging hormones of puberty hid from us for a while. Then we can know that we are worthy partners for the handsome movers-and-shakers of the world. Being comfortable and confident in your own skin is the first secret to making a guy fall in love with you.
Now, this doesn't mean that you should forget about the value of your gorgeousness! You worked hard for that figure, and you know that your face and legs and curves are fun for you and irresistible for him. Now you can be that exciting, lust-inspiring vixen and his best friend too. You've got the whole package, so use it all. Talk to him, understand him, comfort him, caress him. Give him all of the security and joyful comfort of being with mom and dad when he was a boy ' plus the potential of so much more from the woman of his dreams in a lasting, loving relationship.
Now is the time for you to cash in on the investment of all that rejection you dished out back in high school! Now you, as a nurturing sweetheart, can heal his high school wounds and bring joy ' and yourself ' into his life! Just as you needed validation back in high school, he probably needs that from you now.
It's not really a secret. Just be yourself ' your whole self. Bring those aspects of your 4th grade overachiever and your junior prom queen together. It takes all of you to succeed at the art of making a guy fall in love with you.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.